Another list which nobody asked for

Another trip around the sun and just so many feelings! Pandemic birthdays really hit different as you reflect on what survival has meant but also, hello existential crisis? Gratitude has (thankfully) taken the lead amongst all of the emotions. My reflections led me to a few things that have worked for me along the way, …

Rising, together

This might sound like a drop in the ocean but I am a firm believer in doing what you can with what you have. The aim is not to save the entire world, just to lift up the one person that you can.

As I turn 40

I do not know what season of your life you are at or what dreams you have. Whatever they are, I hope you will find the courage to seek them. And may you be all that you were created you to be!

Guess who’s back?

Many of you have been asking why I stopped blogging. Kidding! No one has asked but here I am nonetheless. I am too 'embarazzed' to admit when I last wrote on here. Somewhere along the way, I even 'lost' the site. When I found out, I had to do everything I could to get it …

Dream

At an event in April, I met Phoebe. She'd contributed to 4040 before and we'd chatted but had never met. She introduced herself and I simply said "You're very pretty."At the end of the event we spoke again. I casually mentioned an idea I had. She quickly responded "Let's do it!"I was stunned. A week …

Recovery

How is February coming to an end already? I am shook! << Speaking of, are there any slangs you hate/find ridiculous and end up using them as a joke only for them to stick? Mine include ‘bae’ and now ‘shook.’ Yup, I am cringing as I type but here we are! The past couple of …

Ride Along

Last night I took an uber at about 21:55. I usually sit in the front when I am alone but I let Karen have the co-driver’s seat as I placed my ‘luggage’ in the back. Some people feel safer at the back but I am more comfortable studying my chauffeur in this position. I digress. …

Jambula

I have not been able to write in ages. I know why, but at the same time I don't. A few minutes ago, I found this little book in my memories; one of the sweetest, most thoughtful gifts I have ever received. I got it one year ago today and I am sure there is …

Thursday..

36 Originally posted on Thursday 6 April It is Thursday, my most 'predictable' day of the week because I am sure how it will end- with a 4040 meeting. I often schedule appointments around it..If anyone wants to have wedding meetings with me involved, I ask that Thursday isn't an option; if there is an …

Limitless blessings

34 Real time update; From an email I received.   Dear Esther Greetings from *Renewed hope family to the 40/40 team. Hoping you are all doing well. I am happy to inform you that we are doing well, the children are doing well too. I am glad to inform you that *Renewed hope* has of …